SISSY FOR MY WIFE: (Crossdressing, Feminization, First Time)

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Infidelity, which encompasses lying and betrayal, withholding affection or sex without a clear statement of why… which constitutes abuse. I learned to hide these feminine inclinations and behaviors early because it was quickly obvious to me that they would not be tolerated, leave alone accepted. They tend to view femininity and ‘feminine’ qualities as a step down rather than something of value worthy of respect and aspiration.

Having read this blog I already feel a lot better about his love for me and I know that he’s not doing this to hurt me. I am not here to condone or encourage this, but I can tell you I absolutely understand wanting to do so. Every person in your life is at a different point in their lives and our journeys are all different from each other. After all, he is also a best friend and confidant, someone a wife expects to be entirely open and vulnerable, and he harbored a significant secret. If you are going to try to make this work or wishing to understand this side of him, then keep reading.Often, more than the crossdressing itself, it is that wives and partners feel betrayed by the dishonesty of their husband. If you have a difficult time believing him about *this* please know that this is understandable and expected. You may be at a point where you accept that this is who he is and have accepted that this is a part of his life and therefor a part of your relationship, but you may never be “okay” with it.

We do these things because we love our partners and we don’t want to hurt them, confuse them, or scare them. When I came out to my wife while we were dating, *this* side of me was all about panties and lingerie. And from the crossdresser’s side, we’ve been raised in a society where for the most part what we do has been seen as freakish and disgusting and immoral, and so hiding it seems like the only option. Myself included sometimes, but luckily I’m married to someone who is always asking if I’m okay and making sure I know I can tell him what’s on my mind.

To know that he is helping someone who may still be in the closet… telling them IT IS OKAY TO BE WHO YOU ARE… and not only is it okay, it rocks! He can talk about something that is a major part of his life and yes, he probably won’t shut up about it. I put on a lovely pair of black lingerie and then put on a black dress, pantyhose and heels along with a nice shoulder length hair wig. I told her I really loved her and crossdressing was just something I did for excitement and I was not gay.

Again, I am only speaking from my own experience when I say my cross-gender dressing is not my identity. We talk about my feelings of dysphoria and the fact that I wonder if a lot of my anxiety, withdrawal and depressive episodes, might go away were I on cross-sex hormone treatment (HRT). The two of you may set boundaries, you may establish “ground rules”, you may adopt a “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” agreement.But I know people with fully non-accepting wifes and I wish they would read articles like this to understand what they are missing. For some of us we look at clothes as just something that can be worn and we don’t care if a piece of clothes is designed for a man or a woman.