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Dr. Jane Park: On some level there is maybe a historical/cultural reason for Asian men to feel proprietarial [sic] of Asian women, and it’s totally sexist… I think some of it has to do with the fact that if you’re a part of a minority or diasporic community in a predominantly white society, maybe you feel like “oh my god the white guys are stealing my women, the way they stole my country or my culture.” You can sort of see the logic there. A didn’t believe in enchantment or myth, but I have lived my life in search of transcendence. I have glimpsed it, here and there, when I read a novel and feel the exhilaration of recognition, or when I catch my lover’s eyes and feel that I have found my refuge. I live for these moments, when I am unmade and remade by words, unmade and remade by love. So, our stories diverged, and the world spins madly on. Show people how positive your relationship is. For example, a lot of white women take their husband’s last name. flip conventions on their ass by taking your wife’s Asian name. then people can see how much you reall love, honour and obey her.
She will want you to know about her family early on. And whilst you might not think that this is important, you need to show an interest. Once you do this, you’ll find yourself being warmly embraced, at least in most cases (I have heard some stories where her family are hostile but this is more likely the elders, who are dying off anyway, taking their prejudices with them). When she talks to you about her family, it’s her way of showing you that she wants to get close to you and that she wants you to be a part of her life. Some men might find this hard to get used to, but it’s normal for most Asian women to be very close to their family. Another time, a white man pulled over in his car in broad daylight and, when I looked in the window, his pants had been yanked down to his ankles. He grinned at me as he furiously masturbated before he asked, “Do you want to —” I didn’t hear the rest of his question. Again I screamed at the top of my lungs and ran, not stopping until I saw his car drive away.Much earlier in my life, I dated an Indian woman who was a psychiatrist. Stunningly beautiful, intelligent, kind, gentle, affectionate, independent. Already a citizen, obviously had a great earning capacity, and earned more than me at that time. So 4 years ago there was this one Indonesian girl. She was pretty and really smart. The girl must be super rich because she was an international student and her parents could afford the expensive tuition here. After only 2 months in Canada, she ended up in a relationship with a white guy. The guy was also attractive, quiet, and no one bats an eye. I am an Asian woman, and a certain narrative about relationships like the ones I have had with white men has infiltrated recent Asian American literature. Saturated with paranoia, the narrative portrays white-male/Asian-female (WMAF) couples as relationships inevitably doomed by ethnic difference. Side note: never been opposed to an Asian girl, just never happened (never MET met/wrong timing I guess).
Ok, I said. I don’t normally do this. I live by the UCL building. You can come now because there’s no one home. But you have to be gone by 12, ok?” Natalie’s video is fair and balanced in terms of giving voices to a diverse set of viewpoints by Asian men on this topic, including JT Tran (the Asian dating coach), Phil Wang of Wong Fu Productions (who made a pair of viral videos about WMAF), and the anonymous Redditor “EurasianTiger.” The inclusion of EurasianTiger is particularly impressive, given the controversial reputation he has online; he is a hapa male who has long highlighted the existence of extremely toxic WMAF households where Asian-passing sons are victimized by their own family dynamics (his own father was a neo-Nazi). Sandy, her sister Cindy, and their mother Sophie, all succumb to Daddy's "charms" Language: English Words: 11,436 Chapters: 8/8 Comments: 1 Kudos: 95 Bookmarks: 47 Hits: 25,241That hatred rarely comes from overtly prejudiced groups like the KKK and neonazis bent on racial purity, though. Most of the time #WMAF couples get the dirty eye from people who are otherwise accepting and liberal. It is the year 2140 and the entire world has been brought under the thumb of the Council. Many nations instead of fighting subjected themselves to mass-cultural changes to make their nations more appropriate for their new overlords. Welcome to a Bleached World. Series We found out that the guy got arrested many years ago by the police from google (I can send the article to u/eurasiantiger for proof). He had illegal weapons and was plotting to kill hundreds of people. The AF already knew about this but she dated him anyway. Perhaps that wasn’t exactly the right word, but none of the synonyms Tenzō could find in a thesaurus quite seemed to fit, either. Meticulous, thoughtful, calculating… they all painted a picture very far from the lazy, dawdling, porn-reading bastard that most of Konoha saw. Yet, Tenzō would say that all of those words applied to Hatake Kakashi, as well as several more that he wouldn’t verbalize in polite company. The true essence of the matter was that Kakashi never did anything without consideration, without taking into account the potential consequences. Anyone who served with him in the field could see that. I wish I could say I ran. I wish, like Chris in Get Out, I understood I was in a horror movie. When Chris sees Rose’s box full of exes, his face contorts in fear. If my expression were captured on film, it would have been dreamy, even wistful. I wanted my photo in that box. I wanted him to choose me.
This looks like an awesome group! Here’s my story! I’ve recently grown tired of white women tbh, it’s become a bit of a treadmill going out with them. I’m 26, WM (obviously lol), musician, huge gamer, taller and fit guy (6’1 225) and ever since college, my best friend (Filipino) has ALWAYS been the best time. I’ve met Japanese, Burmese, Cambodian, Vietnamese people and had all of those types of food, THROUGH HIM and had the absolute BEST times of my life. There is a kind of outmoded post-racial optimism infused throughout Natalie’s documentary, which essentially encourages Asian men to overcome our hang-ups and catch up to the post-racial future that WMAF couples already enjoy. Her credits roll (and all thanks to Natalie for including me in them) over a series of some seriously cute WMAF couples talking about the humanity of their love. One man talks about his social anxiety, and how seeing his wife immediately gives him a kind of buoy that he can rest his troubles on. It’s beautiful. Natalie offers to “help” us Asian men get to this post-racial promised land, as she fades out with upbeat outtro music and a montage of her learning about all that real Asian male pain at being left out in the cold. But his disenchantment was a narrative of its own. “Disenchantment” is supposedly how modernity delivered us from magic. But it is itself a narrative—even a myth—that consoles our impotence in the face of contingency with the fantasy that we have the capacity to live rationally with full agency. The choice is not whether we should live in a narrative, but which narrative we should live in. This is why the stakes of storytelling are so high. We carried on getting to know each other over dinner – which was at a small Italian serving elaborate small plates of cicceti.
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But perhaps it does have to be this way. With the election of Trump, the narrative of racial progress was not only put on pause, but it was revealed to be an almost total sham in the first place. If anything, the suspicion that white society was not just glowing from the heat of past racism, but actively producing racial injustice while hiding behind a veneer of post-racial political correctness, was completely validated by his ascension. Despite the difficulty of contending with structural racism on the platform, some BIPOC kinksters on FetLife are explicitly seeking encounters with white partners to play out race-based scenes.
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