Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness

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If you prefer the look of an underwear-style harness, as many folks who are new to strap-on sex are, be sure to take careful measurements of your thighs and waist before shopping to make sure you’re getting the right size. Underwear harness recommendations

It’s also a way for folks to experiment with double penetration, she says. The possibilities — and pleasure — are endless! You’re probably going to get the most use out of a dildo that is 5 to 6 inches long and 1.5 to 1.75 inches in diameter,” says Sloane. That may be too big for your partner, especially if they’re new to pegging or penetration. For first-time strap-on sex, Stubbs suggests a silicone toy. These are typically less heavy and easier to control than glass stainless steel. Plus, it has more give so it’ll likely be more comfortable for the receiving partner. It’ll be challenging to insert them without needing to handle the shaft with your hand the entire time,” Stubbs says. Your best bet is to hold the toy in your hand and test how much it jiggles. Think about what that might feel like inside your, or somebody else’s, body.Something machine-washable means you can wash it and not have to worry about germs or bacteria transmission,” says Sloane. This will make getting lube out easier too. It’s also important to consider the dildo’s texture. “For some partners, the texture can become irritating,” says Sloane. That said, if the partner being penetrated has used and enjoyed textured butt plugs, dildos (not attached to a harness), or G-spot toys, there’s reason to believe that they’ll enjoy a textured strap-on experience. colors — and non-realistic colors if you prefer that,” says Sloane. The Shilo is their most popular with a prominent head that makes it that can be worn by partners of many body shapes, try the Joque by SpareParts, suggests Sloane. It’s adjustable, machine-washable, and due to its

Your dildo should align with your needs and desires for harness play. To reiterate, if you have a partner who you’re planning to use the dildo on or with, take them to the store if you. Vaginal penetration can be pleasurable for some, thanks to the G-spot, the A-spot, the feeling of fullness, and the power dynamics it may invoke,” says Sloane. Plus, pegging may provide an opportunity to explore power and pleasure dynamics that may not already be a part of your play. Anal play can also be enjoyable for people with vaginas. “The anus has thousands of sensitive nerve endings concentrated around the opening and the outer part of the rectum,” mentions Boyajian. “Stimulating this part of the body, paired with the excitement of doing something ‘taboo’ can allow those with vaginas to orgasm fully.” Sometimes called pegging, this form of anal penetration can be incredibly physically pleasurable for people with penises, says Boyajian. “The prostate is located just a few inches inside the anus, toward the belly. For some, stimulating the prostate can produce pleasurable sensations and better orgasms.”With tons of harness options on the market, figuring out what material, style, and price point you want may take some savvy.