22 Things a Woman Must Know If She Loves a Man with Asperger's Syndrome

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And, of course, these are generalizations, even if they are gleaned from specific instances and testimonies, and I stress: not all of them will apply to everyone.

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I have tried to put things forward in an honest manner, without putting a too-positive spin on them. These kinds of extreme behaviors will indicate that he needs a diagnosis if he hasn’t had one, and if he has had one, that he hasn’t quite taken it on board. She deserves her private time after all the hard work she puts in to keep you and the children happy. It gives them time to process the words, without getting confused by all those non-verbal things that are a distraction.If a subject is broached intellectually rather than emotionally you have a better chance of getting him to hear you.